My 90 year old mother in law has lived in an assisted living senior facility for the past 2 years. Due to the recessed economy, management recently announced a promotional room price of $1525 per month to stir up new business.
My mother in law was paying $2440 per month, and that price was slated to increase even more in December. Believing it’s unfair to treat new tenants better than long-time loyal occupants, she asked my wife to contact the business office to request the promotional price.
The business manager promptly returned her call and, reading from a rehearsed script, dryly explained that the special price was for new residents only. Then, hard bargainer that he was, he followed up the phone call with a notification of lease termination. It was clear to me that I wasn’t going to get anywhere with this guy so I decided to go right to the top.
Two days later I contacted the owner directly (the real decision maker) and calmly explained our dilemma. I explained that my mother in law was very comfortable in the facility but felt that her status as a loyal renter was being devalued by being excluded from the lower price. I explained that I understood his position but I wasn’t asking for everyone – just my mother in law, who had been living there for many years.
I also reminded him that my mother in law would probably need more intensive care in the future, one of his core profit centers. I explained that if she was happy there, she would feel much better about moving a few doors down the hall than relocating to an entirely new facility when her health issues inevitably intensified.
Seeing that I was considering the pictures in his head and not just my own interests, he happily agreed to lower her rent significantly to $1,982 and to prorate it for the current month which was already well underway. He also agreed to forego the annual rent increase until December 2012.
These negotiation tools work great. Not only was this negotiation successful but the new rent is even less than she was paying when she first moved in 2 years ago! — Andy Ungar, COO Max Grease Monkey (Beijing) Automotive Technology Ltd., Beijing China.
SD Comment:
This is excellent. Even though the owner didn’t match the introductory price, what the book and course are about are getting more, not getting everything. And I expect that the “introductory price” won’t stay there for long, while your mother-in-law’s price will increase only slowly. You have a friend in the owner. And you didn’t spend a moment on the skin-flint hard bargainer – you went to the person who could meet your goals. Savings of $5,496 for the first year alone.








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